Dou zi zhi ma cha
The book is divided into two parts: "Past Marriage" and "The Limits of Heartbreak." After telling about her mother ("Autumn Garden"), fellow villagers ("Driftwood"), and marriage ("My Fragrance"), she then focused on the marriages of three women: Mrs. Qin, Xiangjun, and Donglian. It details women's confusion and pain, choice and responsibility, courage and persistence in intimate relationships. Even if their fate is unfair, they will not give up on self-salvation. In addition, the author recalls the past events he experienced with his mother and brother, as well as the records of the deaths of two close relatives. Those trivial things like sesame seeds and mung beans measure the limit of a person's sadness.
本书分为两部分: “过去的婚姻”和“伤心的极限”。在讲述过母亲 (《秋园》) 、乡亲 (《浮木》)、婚姻 (《我本芬芳》) 之后, 她又将目光聚焦到秦老太、湘君、冬莲这三位女性的婚姻上, 细致入微地讲述了女性在亲密关系当中的困惑与痛楚、选择与担当、勇气与坚持, 即便命运不公, 也不放弃自我救赎。此外, 作者回忆了与妈妈和哥哥一起经历的往事, 以及两位至亲离世之际的记录, 那些如芝麻绿豆般的小事丈量了一个人伤心的极限。 |
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